JUDGE ANNA WORLEY

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  1. Karen says:
    December 5, 2011 at 12:54 pm

    I am at my wits end with Judge Anna Worley, Raleigh, NC. It is a very long story & I don’t have time to get into it right now. She originally ruled in favor of my daughter. Allowing my daughter to move back to her family in Ohio. The mother left the home & went to battered womens shelter for 2 months & then had to live in a hotel room with these boys for another month with no income. There was a DVPO on the father for one year. When the father kept taking her back to court for custody, he told nothing but lies. My daughter had documents to back her story up. This man has not paid child support for these children & claims to be a successful businessman in Raleigh. It has been 6 months & Judge Worley still has not signed the final papers after her ruling. She has given the father visitation rights for 3 weekends a month, making those boys travel immediately after school on friday and not return home until 10:00 at night on sunday. They cannot participate in any school activities or establish friendships under this current ruling. The father refuses to send child support. The mother works, supplies housing, pays for all medical & pays for the schooling that the father & Judge Worley, insisted on which is a private school. The mother could not afford the gas money to meet the father half way to receive them after this last visitation. So the father took them back to Raleigh and is filing temporary custody & enrolling them in school there.
    Where is the rights of these children to grow up in a comfortable stable home setting. They have been dragged around for 8 yrs. All the mother has done is try to establish a good peaceful home life while the father lies, cheats & causes a series of emotional upsets for these children.
    The mother wants her children back & this deadbeat father to stand up to the plate & support his children. How do you go against a Judge without destroying the outcome in your favor? We need help! A Judge is not God! The children should come first. The lawyers are able to support their children quite well with the money we keep coughing up just to get put on a back burner!!! Any help or useful ideas will be appreciated.

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    • glorybe2God says:
      March 12, 2012 at 5:40 am

      I don’t know where to beginwhen refering to this woman. First let me state that I believe she doesn’t care about these children, but instead the politics of it all. Every lawyer I have spoken with claims she’s known as the 50-50 judge. However 50-50 is not the answer for most cases. A child needs stability and nourishment especially in the early stages of their life. How can a child enter into kindergarten never knowing which home they will go to when school is over, bc this is exactly what she has ordered and refused to change for my 5 year old even after I proved the father to be unfit. I feel that their is some serious corruption going on in that court room and we need to come together and do something we need to be heard. Please e-mail me with your numbers bc when we stand alone our voice is small but if we come together somebody has to listen. I am willing to protest and stand in front of the court house and fight for my son and these other affected children!

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      • jennifer kempton says:
        January 30, 2013 at 4:29 pm

        Hi, too have been a recent victim judge worelys and no idea that this was a common thing in her court room! I left feeling so defeated after walking in thinking that I had no reason to worry. after telling the judge about my ex’s current criminal activities were he was convicted of a felony and was currently on trial for assault on a female by strangulation, she STILL gave him the extra time he asked for, stating that is was only an extra two days a month and it was no big deal, well it IS a big deal and puts us at 50/50 custody. I haven’t even been arrested before and am a hardworking nursing student trying to better my childrens’ lives! His parents dont even trust him for gods sake. this is only the tip of the iceburg as far as the issues this man has, but I’m very lost as to what I can do other than file a 59 order to rehear the case but I’m afraid that will be flushing more money down the toilet for a lawyer to no avail. I’m wondering about a request for reassignment in hopes for a new judge, but my lawyer thinks that’s a waste of time. what have you been able to do. I want to fight this and her but what can we do? my number is 919 819 3790 and I would love to hear from anyone who can help.

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        • My Kids Dad says:
          January 30, 2013 at 4:33 pm

          What has he done that would be considered a threat to the child? If anything (don’t want to assume anything one way or the other)?

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          • Anonymous says:
            January 31, 2013 at 1:53 pm

            Well my children have both walked in on him having sex at least once a piece, as well his relationship with his now girlfriend is so volatile that te cops have been called about 6 times according to the residence record for his address. This has lead to her takin out a restarining order and pressing charges for assault in a female by strangulation. This is not an environment I want my kids to take part in not be exposed to. As well he drinks when he has the kids and our order says we can’t do that. He’s already had a DUI and I believe he’s and alcoholic. He has poor judgement and self control and has already has past domestic violence issues with me.

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            • My Kids Dad says:
              February 1, 2013 at 4:32 pm

              He doesn’t seem like a threat to the children though? Children need both parents. I hope you can work it out, keep the children safe, and give the kids a chance to know they have a father; as well as experience him.

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          • Anonymous says:
            January 31, 2013 at 1:54 pm

            As well I shouldn’t lose time with the kids when u haven’t done anything wrong and he certainly hasn’t done anything right!

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    • Ellis van Kaauwen says:
      September 5, 2012 at 10:08 am

      I am not surprised, since I am living this injustice myself. Judge Worley’s ruling is really odd and unusual. In my case I thought I had everything in my hands, as a stay at home mom for 8 years, still I am not awarded any alimony, He tell lies and she falls for it, and does not really look at the facts and awards him, visitation according to his work schedule. It’s really absurd, and frustrating. This way I can never find a job or have a career. While he is a dad to his convenience. Someone needs to step up and check her rulings, that take forever, over 6 months time by the way.

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  2. IR says:
    December 21, 2011 at 2:26 pm

    In response to issues with Judge Worley here is a glimpse of my case which is destroying the lives of my 2 innocent children and financially depleting my family savings just to right this terrible wrong made by Judge Worley where the sole fact is the father simply had to agree to allow the children to attend school in Chapel Hill where they primarily resided with their mother 65%+ of their time.

    I would like to bring to your attention the following pieces of information, testified in court in July 2011 regarding the issue(s) surrounding the educational decision that was made and verbalized by Honorable Judge Worley. Please kindly ponder this information for the sake of my children and file this as documentation regarding our case under XXXXX vs Shaw, Jr.
    Since our separation in April 2009 due to irreconsilable differences and verbal abuse by the husband for 10+ years, I have had primary physical custody of our children and father has had secondary physical custody, as signed by legal agreement by both parties.
    In the end of 2009, I asked father’s permission to relocate out of the state of North Carolina, with the children. He did not grant that permission.
    After our official divorce in June 2010, I again asked father’s permission to relocate out of the Raleigh/Wake Forest area to Asheville, NC, with the children. He did not grant that permission.
    At that time, I was advised by my (first) attorney, that I was legally allowed to relocate without the need for father’s permission as long as the move did not effect the current custodial agreement. For reference, that is our still current Order to Approve Parenting Agreement where I am the primary physical custodial parent and father is the secondary physical custodial parent. Our current custodial schedule grants approximately 65% of the children’s custodial time with me and approximately 35% custodial time with father, as we agreed upon in court mediation, and was signed by and court ordered by Judge Worley on 9/3/10. We then relocated to Chapel Hill in January 2011. Since I am the children’s primary physical custodial parent, I felt it pertinent that we choose a location that has an excellent school system since I felt the children would logically be going to school where they primarily reside. I spoke to the superintendent of the Chapel Hill/Orange Co school system (and xxxxxxxx, who is the current superintendent) and all deemed it wise, in their experience to relocate children in between holiday breaks and/or summer breaks for a clean and comfortable transition. The neighborhood we chose is in the heart of urban and diverse Chapel Hill and backs up to the Estes Hills Elementary School and Guy Phillips Middle School. The schools run on a traditional based school calendar, which I will address shortly.
    Father would not agree to allow the children to change schools in January 2011 due to control issues and filed a restraining order that would not allow mother to enroll the children in any other school pending a hearing. Judge Worley signed that document indicating she had a policy that did not allow children to change school mid-year. As a result of this filed/signed restraining order, my children have had a daily commute (4 out of 5 school days per week) from Chapel Hill to Wake Forest and back. This averages 1hour and 40 minutes of driving for them per day just to go to-from school. This stated commute has endured since January 2011 (11 months now and counting). Our hearing was originally scheduled for May 13, 2011. That day, Judge Worley moved the date to July 2011. We were heard then. The decision made by Judge Worley verbalized 50/50 shared physicial custody to 2 high conflict parents that live 40 miles apart, assigned a Parenting Coordinator for the duration of 1 calendar year and ordered the children to remain in the Wake County school system using the father’s physical address as residence, even though the facts were presented indicating that the father travels for his job with the job title of East Coast Regional Sales Manager, with his divison headquarters in Houston, Texas and corporate office in Northern California!

    There is so much more to this but that is a start to what appears is another family in ruins over Judge Anna Worley’s illogical decisions.

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  3. Shelley Riselvato says:
    January 3, 2012 at 10:48 pm

    I have sole legal custody of my three boys and have primary physical custody. Judge Worley is my custody judge. Despite the appearance of a favorable ruling for my boys and me, Judge Worley made our lives an absolute living hell for nearly 3 years after my remarriage when my ex lost his marbles (because I got remarried). She is, hands down, in my opinion, one of the worst judges with whom I have dealt. In fact, I had to write to Chief Justice Rader just to get Worley to sign the order she had rendered in open court nearly 7 months prior. I write to you because my husband, who also has primary physical custody of this 3 children, sought to move with me to Chapel Hill (where my children attend a private school) and she did to him exactly what she did to you. I actually think you and I may have been in court together this past 3 November, because I heard bits and pieces of your case that day and could not forget it because of how strikingly similar it was to my husband’s case.

    He is appealing her ruling that if he moves, custody must now be split. Are you appealing yours?

    I will fight Worley’s re-election with every fiber of my being.

    Hope to hear from you.

    Shelley

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    • IR says:
      January 4, 2012 at 9:44 am

      Shelley,
      Thanks for your insight. The day after I wrote that post (Dec 22, 2011) we went back to court (our parenting Coordinator requested a return to court) so Judge Worley would HAVE to address her verbalized order from July 19, 2011 of assigning 50/50 custody and indicate which parent would get M/T custody vs W/Th custody – a completely illogical arrangement for parents that live 40 miles apart. I am interested in hearing more about your contact with Chief Justice Radar since we waited 11 months for any ruling, 6 months from the court date to actual signing of the court order and in those 11 months – 3 horrific ludicrous decisions made by Judge Worley that were simply decisions made on her previous decisions made on her previous decisions! – all of which make no sense. If you were in the courtroom on Dec 22, you would have heard me stating ALL of my reasons for why I was fighting for M/T vs W/Th custody – something small yet extremely important to award my children to minimize the endless changes Judge Worley has inflicted on my precious children. Yet Judge Worley assigned their father his wishes, once again against me -the order signed was clearly pure slander, written by my ex husbands attorney who has repeatedly displayed sheer unprofessionalism and the order is littered with inappropriate opinionated statements all against me – a legal document written to smear my name and character without cause and JUDGE WORLEY SIGNED IT! It was a circus. I spent 20 minutes making statement after statement to Judge Worley specifically listing ALL the reasons why the order was irrational and all the reasons why at this point we should be awarded M/T purely for the children’s sake. I went on and on, making my statements, to finally have Judge Worley scream “STOP!!!” in the courtroom that ended in silence and her ultimately making her decision against me once again – for no reason. Yes, I have to appeal the decision, for the sake of my children to give them the life they deserve. Unfortunately, I feel I need to find a more aggressive attorney. Mine has been through the ringer with me I just don’t feel he has the character of fighting back, hence the reason why I stood in that courtroom and fought for my children with MY voice as my attorney wasn’t able to express with passion my case. If you have any suggestions, please let me know. The sad thing here is (like you indicated) my ex husband is psychotic and has also lost his marbles as a result of my remarriage 1 year ago. He is anxiety ridden, on medication, travels for his job as a regional sales manager, is obcessive-compulsive and ultimately is a control freak — this case is a clear example of his control issues and he will stop at nothing to hurt me but the horrible thing is his issues directly hurt my children. He lacks reason and only wants to destroy our attempts at raising our family in Chapel Hill. Yet Judge Worley makes these decisions that are destroying 2 children repeatedly for no clear reason. If you can, please do tell me more about your husbands appeal process – i think that is the only route to take versus a Motion to Modify since that would send us back to Judge Worley versus a panel of judges who will hopefully see these repeated wrongs. Also, wondering how you initially were awarded sole legal custody and primary physicial custody of your children. Was that through Judge Worley as well? Do you think she simply rules against Chapel Hill versus Wake County? That does seem to be the general pattern.
      I too will fight her re-election with everything I have within me. She is ruining lives and it brings tears to my eyes just to think that another family is going through the hell that we are as a direct result of her rulings.

      I also have emailed our parenting coordinator the following:
      ….”I further recall a statement made by Judge Worley indicating, “I feel strongly that the families of Wake County deserve a judiciary that remembers that children feel the effects of our courts’ decisions, even when they are not parties to an action.” from
      http://www.indyweek.com/indyweek/anna-elena-worley/Content?oid=1207918.
      Respectfully, I know the decision made by Judge Worley regarding custody AND education is fatally wrong and has been hurting my children everday day since January 2011. That goes against everything that Judge Worley claims to stand for.”…..

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  4. Shelley Riselvato says:
    January 4, 2012 at 9:28 pm

    Wow! I cannot believe the similarities in our cases: your’s, my husband’s, and my own. Judge Worley also yelled at my husband, “Stop!” when he was advocating for himself in the same way you described you doing so. Worley also offered the same ridiculous custodial schedule to my husband, should he choose to move with me and my children, that she gave to you. My husband has stayed in Wake Forest. He stays with us as much as possible, but we are being crippled financially because of it. Ha! And parenting coordinators! Ha! Mine was Woofer Davidian – office mate of your PC if I remember correctly (I remember Worley stating in court on whatever day it was I saw you there). In the beginning, Woofer helped and I suppose throughout he helped, but he also turned a blind eye. One day 2 summers ago my ex-husband took my 3 sweet little boys to my current husband’s ex-wife’s house for 8 grueling hours of “childcare” despite my sobbing and begging him to allow me to take them for the day (he said he had to work and couldn’t find childcare). Yes, you read that right! I called Woofer and he would NOT allow me to get my children! That move on my ex-husband’s part did not sit well with Worley. A few other idiot moves like that by him is what earned me legal custody – but oh the cost to me and my children. I lost 20 pounds (weighed 97 2 years ago in the midst of all this) and half my hair fell out. It was beyond awful. My youngest son (4 at the time) awoke in the middle of the night the day after it happened sobbing and telling me he thought he had to stay there (at my husband’s ex-wife’s house)! Really bad stuff, these crazy exes are. I get the psychotic thing big time. It’s scary how naive the courts are about it – especially Worley.

    I tried to put my email in the post I initially sent, but the “moderator” cut it out. I am going to try to write it again in here in code – it’s my first name followed by my last name with a period between the first and last name. The domain is hotmail. If that makes sense to you, please do email me privately.

    Have you received your order from the 22 December hearing? You know you have only 10 days to file for appeal once you receive your written, date-stamped order – not legal advice, just info about the appellate procedure. I am a paralegal and have to be careful what I say :) .

    About Justice Rader – I wrote a letter to him (I’d be happy to email you a copy of it) detailing the history of my case and the total lack of response I had received from Worley regarding my order. Within 6 days, the order was in my mailbox. That was the order granting me legal custody of my children. I already had primary physical. It sucks that I was unable to depend on a court system to follow through when that same court system had turned my life and my boys’ lives into a living hell. I handle my own case – both custody with Worley and support with Judge Ruth – and have for the past 2 1/2 years. There are great lawyers out there – Jill Jackson at Tharrington Smith is one – but I am the only one who cares about my case as much as I do. Whatever I did – it worked.

    Anyway, I could go on and on. It’s a bit tiring sometimes. Well, more than a bit.

    I hope to get an email from you, as I would love to connect. I know there are others like us out there. Just in the last couple of months, the appellate court has reversed one of Worley’s support rulings and reversed in part, affirmed in part, remanded another ruling. I suspect there are other reversals I just haven’t had time to look further. It’s coming out what this woman has done with her power. I want to make sure the public knows who they are putting back on the bench – judicial elections can really slip under the radar. The people of Wake County can vote for whomever – I simply want to ensure that they are voting with knowledge, not out of ignorance.

    Shelley

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    • jennifer kempton says:
      January 30, 2013 at 4:42 pm

      Hi, too have been a recent victim judge worelys and no idea that this was a common thing in her court room! I left feeling so defeated after walking in thinking that I had no reason to worry. after telling the judge about my ex’s current criminal activities were he was convicted of a felony and was currently on trial for assault on a female by strangulation, she STILL gave him the extra time he asked for, stating that is was only an extra two days a month and it was no big deal, well it IS a big deal and puts us at 50/50 custody. I haven’t even been arrested before and am a hardworking nursing student trying to better my childrens’ lives! His parents dont even trust him for gods sake. this is only the tip of the iceburg as far as the issues this man has, but I’m very lost as to what I can do other than file a 59 order to rehear the case but I’m afraid that will be flushing more money down the toilet for a lawyer to no avail. I’m wondering about a request for reassignment in hopes for a new judge, but my lawyer thinks that’s a waste of time. what have you been able to do. I want to fight this and her but what can we do? I was told by her coordinator and by a lawyer that appealing it can take yeas to be heard by and appeals court. how can I get a different set of ears on this case because she clearly wasnt listening to me when I told her what this man was doing in his spare time. my number is 919 819 3790 and I would love to hear from anyone who can help.

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    • Lets make a change says:
      January 31, 2013 at 2:11 pm

      How did you find out about the recent appeal rulings? Someone told me that it’s 10,000 to go in front of an appeals court, is that true? Also has anyone tried to just put in a request for a new judge? Also how do we go about getting a civil action suit filed? That really needs to be done!

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  5. Virgil says:
    January 9, 2012 at 11:50 am

    Ladies, I can’t imagine the pain, hurt, distrust, disgust or anger you all feel and are experiencing. I will simply say to each of you. You all must put this in the spot light and do more. If it (the system) is broken someone must fix. Prayerfully these impassioned comments are being followed up by some serious legal conversations. It’s not gonna be easy, but change never is. You all join together and continue to reach out to others and if need be start a class action suit against the state NC. Get someone’s attention and fight like heck for your kids. It is mind boggling to me the absurdity in each of your stories. Good luck and may God give each of you strength.

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  6. Lane says:
    January 9, 2012 at 8:04 pm

    What is happening with child custody and Judge Ann Worley in Wake County, Raleigh NC? This Judge has made a poor decision in regard to each response I have read. When is something going to be done to stop this corrupt mess and wrong decision making by Judge Ann Worley. These families need help and there are serious concerns. Let us all remember families and children feel the efforts of Judge Ann Worley hasty unfortunate decisions.

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  7. Shelley Riselvato says:
    January 16, 2012 at 9:23 pm

    Virgil and Lane – Thank you for your supportive words. I think one of the most important actions individuals can make is to avoid voting “straight ticket”. Before I had children, I voted in this manner for judges (this option of voting allows constituents to vote along a party line, even for candidates with whom they may be less familiar). Never again! I now realize the serious implications of such haphazard voting. I hope that those who choose to vote for a particular judge will be VERY familiar with that judge’s opinions, cases, philosophy, and judicial record. Ask around – especially ask attorneys. Off the record, most attorneys downtown will be very candid about their experiences with judges. We (including Worley) need to remember that the judicial office is a public office and is meant to serve the public. That courtroom is not Anna Worley’s courtroom – it is the public’s courtroom. Individuals have a responsibility to choose judges wisely! 2012 is election year for Anna Worley! If she is not representing the majority, then let’s get someone on the bench who will!

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  8. Shelley Riselvato says:
    January 17, 2012 at 1:34 am

    I have created a blog for parents against the re-election of Anna Worley. Please visit. Please share your story.

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  9. Sherry says:
    January 18, 2012 at 4:21 pm

    My custody case started back in April 2010 went in the court room under Judge Ann Worley. I went in the court-room Pro-Se during the Temporary Custody hearing. I had spoke to an attorney by the name of Laura Breanna just a few day prior o Temporary Hearing Date and due to prior engagement she was unable to attend court with me, so I had to represent myself and the defendant’s attorney was Corrie Seagroves. There was substantiated evidence like a police report which was processed from the incident of why the oldest, age 16 was removed from the home in Wake County with the defendant. However, the police did not file a CPS report on the incident. I obtained attorney Laura Breanna who represented the child custody of the
    children and was told my oldest son ages 16 would have opportunity to speak, and he did not have to go to the court order drop off for custodial exchange with the defendant. All this information was conveyed to me by the attorney inwhich I had retained. There was many mistakes and errors drafted by the defendant’s attorney which needed to be corrected because the order was drafted as though I was not apart of my children life for the previous years. The defendant attorney wrote a story as though I did not exist. However, I’m a mother have always been a nuture for my children. I’m a law biding citizen of north carolina,I have also volunteered as guardian ad Litem, presently sworn in under oath.

    The defendant’s attorney continued the case 3 times, and my attorney had all the information inwhich I presented regarding my children. However, the last time I meet with attorney Laura Breannan there was a letter that
    was sent out (conveying me whom seek legal assistance for the well being of my children) went against her advise, there was a show case issued by the defendant’s attorney, Corrie Seagroves. How can you go against an attorney’s advice, when it’s your childrens life dangling on the stings of the system.

    So, once attorney Breannan was removed due to legal ethics from representation. I seek asisstance from another attorney: her name was Tominson Gore, trying to get
    help and gave this attorney: a retainer and did not realize and signed: $1,500.00 give away for her o just review the case. It was for ony 4 days, of course she keep the retainer and in my opinion certainly not professional. So, I loss $1,500.00 why my kids was in need.

    So, I had a court date which had already been set for show cause, and permanent custody in April 2011.

    I enter the court room under judge Ann Worley . I was again the court room again and the judge immediately “frighten me, by saying I did I realize I was facing jail time if found in compempt of court ( for why the oldes son was not going to the meeting per the order. I explained that I had an attorney and there was a police report and she was not hearing it, it was suppose to go back on the docket for another day. “Guess what happen with the show cause: the defendant’s attorney sent a letter it was removed and dropped. Show Cause never submitted in court..but here is what happend next…

    The judgeWorley told me to comeback; to be heard on the permanent custody hearing: It was April 20, 2011 and it was 5:00PM, time for court hours to be closed, and the judge listen to the defendant’s attorney: Corrie Seagrove and defendant whom stated if it was not heard he would not have a job. I told the judge I needed to leave ( I was again in the court room it was 5PM and it lasted until 7PM) I was only pro-se Plantiff (myself) defendant’s attorney, defendant, court reporter and judge Ann Worley: The order completely changed: The defendant had not been in Mecklenburg county for a year before Judge Ann Worley (remove my children from wake county). It was my oldest son sophomore year ending, we as parent’s know who important a child’s Junior year. The children had always been a resident of Wake County: and they were being removed in the begininning of the new school year August 25, 2011 to move to new schools in Mecklenburg county. . What I presented during the temporary custody which allowed for the children to remain in here in Wake County after the emotional and pychological trauma of seperation and divorce the judge worley of having 2 parents now separated and parenting separately changed dramatically:

    I have attained an new attorney: (very good) whom presented additional information has been presented regarding an exparte in July 2011, for the minor children it was denied by judge Sasser. Judge Sasser handle it because Judge Worley was out on this particular day.

    However, on October 3, 2011 court on Motion to Amend Rule 52, 58, 59 and 60 and they were denied with my new attorney by Judge Ann worley. The defendant did not even show up for this court day: and the defendant’s attorney on this day: asked that I pay her court cost because he was out of a job and did not have gas money to come to court.

    To the people of North Carolina, politicians, families and children our judicial system is broken. The best interest of the children is at the discrection of the law makers and counselors and majoriy of the time they are only getting a snap shot of what has happened. Why would a judge not take a moment to listen to a child and hear about
    what happened in their life. All youth have to follow rules, laws and often time face charges if they are found guilty. Then, why do judges not listen to children whom does not have any suspension from school, no infraction on there school records during a family court proceeding in chamber to get more of what happened to the family dynamics. Also, why would a judge just try something with children without specifics of neglect and abuse. Who do we think loss the parents whom has already seperated are the children whom life change forever. Parents continue to be a voice for your children for change!!!!
    However, the judical system is broken and the best interest of the children is not being regarded. The voices of our children must be heard. I have a junior in high school whom is 16 years old and Judge Ann Worley conveyed she did not want to hear from the minor child. Whom is at the peak of is high school career, removed from his friends and social group and the statement she was gonna try something.

    What is the judical system doing to our children, as parents regardless of the differences of opinions as parents. Today, we need to look at how our children are being taken advantage of at greed of law makers, attorneys and individuals making decisions. I would like to see the bar raised on ” Voice of Our Children in the state of North Carolina”.

    To every parent, child and family member: we have to come together for change: when family end up in family court ( the dynamics family is broken, but our children should have the opportunity to be in the environment inwhich they can continue to grow emotional and psychological for their overall well being. To each of you whom has posted let come together for the Voice of Our Children. I would love to hear from each of you! Shelly, Irina, karen

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  10. Sherry says:
    January 18, 2012 at 4:30 pm

    I have additional information: Shelly, Irina, and karen please get my e-mail from Ron and send me e-mail’s so we can continue to share.

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  11. Yep, its true says:
    January 19, 2012 at 10:29 pm

    Shelly,
    If you could, please start a Facebook page rather than a blog page. I personally believe you will have many followers and supporters within minutes.
    My wife has been in court for very similar issues. One major difference though, Worley is still allowing visitation to the father who has been found to be SEXUALLY ABUSING HIS CHILD!!! We live in Ohio, and Child Protection Services in Ohio are working their tails off to prevent the visitation, but everyone has been hitting walls because of her orders. Please Start the Facebook page, let us know when its up on this site, and trust me, the followers will be of the page will be quick. Plus its easier for anyone going through any of this to have a place to be heard and possibly help one another.

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  12. Sherry says:
    January 20, 2012 at 10:51 am

    Shelly,

    Would you please send me your e-mail? It’s urgent..thanks in advance.

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  13. Just Jennifer says:
    January 20, 2012 at 11:46 am

    I am not even sure where to start, with my battle with Judge Worley. My case started with her almost 3 years ago and has been a nightmare, I have been found in contempt, every motion my lawyer files is denied. Now we have proof and documented information of S/A by by her father. Now he has yet again files yet another contempt motion which was granted!
    My daughter is terrified to be with her father. How can I protect her from sexual abuse when the judge is allowing visitation. I am lost. Traveling back and forth from Cleveland Ohio to NC. This is every time. Even for his visits, I must drive so he can see her.
    PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME, Before MY DAUGHTER BECOMES ANOTHER Child who continues to have her life destroyed, or something even worse. PLEASE I have no where else to turn.

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  14. IR says:
    January 20, 2012 at 12:30 pm

    I am speechless. Judge Worley’s decisions have destroyed the beauty of childhood for my children with her repeated disastrous decisions (3 to be exact now – since 2009) and I am horrified to see the number of other families that are coming forward with similar stories. I must first say that the stories of S/A father’s being given visitation rights by this Judge are enough to have the JUDGE jailed. This is sick in every way imagined. We, as a family, have been dragged through the court system because of this illogical judge. My story has been expressed in pieces here. However, back in January 2011, when myself, my new husband and my 2 children relocated to Chapel Hill from Wake Forest, I had primary physical custody of my children where they lived with me 4 of 5 school days per week and every other weekend. A month before we relocated (already had our home in place) their father, out of control and anger filed a Temporary Restraining Order on me in December 2010 not allowing me to enroll the children in a school in Chapel Hill (the school is within a bike ride distance from our home and is listed at the very top of all GOV based stats as one of the best in all of NC.) and allow filed an ExParte on me. Judge Worley signed this absurd motion stating the children would have to commute from Chapel Hill to Wake Forest to remain in their current Wake County schools until she heard the case – scheduled for May 2011. So for 5 months we commuted 4 out of 5 school days per week to-from school – their father just puts them on the bus from his home. In May 2011 – Judge Worley stated her calendar was too bust and rescheduled the hearing for July 2011. We continued to commute throughout July 2011 since my children were forced to continue attending their Wake County schools, which are Year round and ended the school year July 2011. On July 2011, after 7 months of driving 2+ hours per day to -from school, my children exhausted, crying many days having spent all their “play time” in the car driving made a decision to Change custoday to 50/50 for two high conflict parents living 40+ miles apart and ordered that the children continue in Wake COunty schools, despite my proving with documentation that their father travels as a sales man for his work and the school in Chapel Hill were hands down proved by government stats to be the better school/system – despite my daughter being AG and assigned an incompetent Parenting Coordinator to us for a period of 1 year – all the while we proved that the father did not miss 1 single custodial day during all of this….and on and on and on. THEN, December 2011 (6 months since the court hearing) Judge Worley had STILL NOT SIGNED THE ORDER . So we go back to court end of December 2011 and she finally signs the order, giving their father the days he wanted the days that hurt my children based on their involved activities in Chapel Hill (my son was forced to drop out of cubscouts because of her order) and the court order that was written by the fathers attorney – Lorian Vitale – was unprofessional, lacked factual information and was written with opinionated statements that were entirely slanderous towards me making me appear like I was an unfit mother when I was in actuality I was a stay at home mother for 6 years managing every aspect of my children’s lives and volunteering at school while their father was travelling extensively for business, never called home to say goodnight to his kids, did whatever he wanted, verbally abused me, has an anxiety disorder and was drunk most nights that he was home (and away on business) . We proved all of this yet the court order written by Lori Vitale that was unbelieveably unprofessional and lacked factual statements was approved and signed by the Judge. Judge Worley actually asked me to make statements in my defense and then when I was speaking, she screamed “STOP” in the courtroom and then made her decision NOT IN THE BEST INTERESTS OF MY CHILDREN BUT WAS BASED ON THE CONVENIENCE OF THEIR FATHER’S TRAVEL SCHEDULE. Fact: if Judge Worley had made a logical decision to allow my children back in January 2011 to changes schools during a natural change time of January when all kids are returning from Christmas holiday and kept the custodial schedule that was ORIGINALLY SIGNED BY BOTH PARENTS that was in no way affected by our move, my children would be happy children attending school that they could ride their bikes to every day and be academically challenged as they deserve and need and NONE of this would be. $45K later of most of my savings and not seeing any light at the end of the tunnel – my employement suffering as a result of all of this court and driving and my children having to deal with the endless suffering, I will do everything in my power to not have her re-elected. This MUST STOP as she is hurting so many families and innocent children.

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  15. Shelley Riselvato says:
    January 20, 2012 at 2:03 pm

    My email – the moderator of this site deletes my emails, so I have posted my email address on my blog. Click on my name (hyperlinked) at the top of this comment and you will be taken to my blog Parents Against Judge Anna Worley’s Re-Election.

    I have misgivings about a Facebook page. If we are to truly fight this judge’s re-election, we must be a coherent, unified front, organized, savvy, and intelligent. We cannot simply vent (though it IS necessary outside of the internet to vent and have tons of support, as custody is so emotionally devastating), but must provide accurate information (even going so far as to post transcripted statements from your court cases). I believe that is the ONLY way to have credibility with the masses. Poor grammar, misspelled words, incoherent paragraphs will damage our credibility. I am concerned that a Facebook page would prevent quality control, for lack of a better term. As it stands, comments on my blog are subject to my approval.

    I’d love feedback about my thoughts above. I am not against Facebook and think that the traffic it gets would be a boon to our cause. I just want to ensure quality and credibility so that our fight is not in vain.

    Shelley

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    • Yep, its true says:
      January 20, 2012 at 7:30 pm

      Shelley,
      I understand completely the value of integrity one would want with any type of cause and/or belief. But having a public page to bring awareness to larger masses is exactly what should be done. With more supporters, you become a larger entity, a larger voice. As far as venting, what I have read on this page has so far been just that. And I extremely encourage anyone who has to, do so. If it was not for our experiences with this particular judge, not one of us would have even found this page. I myself have started a Facebook page along with a few others. It is not intended for slander, but for the public to get a very real insight into what is going on in the courtroom that they have trusted for years. It’s a shame that any of us have gone through her courtroom, with an end result of having to research the internet for answers and justice of any kind.
      I hope everyone that has posted here on this site will be willing to understand the determination I have in exposing this judge to the harm she has done, not to just the parents, but most importantly, the children that have had the misfortune of being under her power of the courtroom. If anyone wants the link to the page, please let me know. Or if the moderator of this website will allow me, I will post it here. I will be using any information I can find on the internet, such as this website, and quite a few others as well, to streamline all I can to bring awareness to as many as possible. I myself am one of the moderators, and will ensure as much credibility and quality as I can.
      As far as grammar from others that may post, they still have a right and opinion. And that I know, has never been discredited by a court of law.
      I hope you all can support the page, as I intend to support this, and any other site , to do what I can as an individual.

      Thanks Everyone

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  16. Shelley Riselvato says:
    January 20, 2012 at 3:08 pm

    Sorry, I meant to say the moderator does not allow me to post my email address in my emails and deletes the email address. He does not delete my emails, just the email address, which is why I can’t put it in the post.

    Shelley
    shelley.riselvato@hotmail.com

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  17. My Kids Dad says:
    January 20, 2012 at 3:20 pm

    My website (by default) does not display the email address for protection. I have pasted it into your edited comment… since you gave me permission.

    With Regard to FACEBOOK…
    I have a Page for Kangaroocourtwatch.org located at http://www.facebook.com/kangaroocourts that will soon have the ability to see comments that have been sent to me (pre-approved) for each Judge. I will have a special page for each Judge beginning with Judge Christian and Judge Worley. be on the look out.

    Essentially I will re-post pre-approved comments from my websites to the FACEBOOK page. I would also note that I do not correct spelling, grammar, or any other errors. I like the fact that we are ALL real people, none better or worse than the other IN ANY WAY! I will not post foul language or vulgarities however. Sometimes I edit out a few words and other times I simply do not approve the post. Thanks to all of you for keeping everyone informed through your participation here! Remember to spread the word that the MOST important thing anyone can do is TELL YOUR STORY!!!

    I have other FACEBOOK pages addressing similar issues…

    http://www.facebook.com/exposingtherecord
    http://www.facebook.com/ronreale2014
    http://www.facebook.com/etrradio.org

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  18. Shelley Riselvato says:
    January 20, 2012 at 3:50 pm

    Wow! Thanks! This matters…this telling our stories. Please, everyone, know how much this matters. It is silence which empowers those who are unjust. Speak up and speak out! I am so grateful for those who do, as I can see I am not alone.

    Shelley

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  19. Just Jennifer says:
    January 21, 2012 at 10:13 am

    We decided to make a facbook page just for Judge Anna E Worley. I think and believe as much as Yep,its true that people also need to share their stories and we can all be connected in a positive way. The site we be monitored and we will not deal with slander or abuse of the page. Post that are anything but truthful will be deleted. I want the same as all these parents and families who have been ruined by judge Anna Worley.
    The website is
    http://www.facebook.com/pages/Parents-Against-and-For-Exposing-Judge-Anna-E-Worley-NC
    I truly hope we can all share our stories and hopefully come to together to file some kind of cause action suit against NC and Her..
    Thank you for taking the time to read and hopefully visit this page the more we have behind the stronger we are as a group. Please share this site with anyone going through what we are going through.
    Thanks again Jennifer

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  20. Shelley Riselvato says:
    January 22, 2012 at 7:59 pm

    Jennifer,

    I clicked on your Facebook link, but it is not active yet. Will you confirm that the link above is correct?

    Regarding a class action suit, judges have immunity regarding the decisions they make from the bench. The class action suit available to us is speaking up clearly and articulately. I will be very candid about my hesitancy to start a Facebook page…I have worked in law offices. I know something of how attorneys perceive non-attorneys, especially non-attorneys who try to take on the system. If one gives the appearance of being reactionary or speaking without understanding, one will be labeled a fool and dismissed. Perhaps that is not an issue here because likely the attention we need comes from non-attorneys. However, I do think the voice of the legal community can be helpful, if we can get their backing. I’ve literally never heard one positive comment from the legal community about Worley; however, I worked in family law for only a few months before moving on to a federal litigation law firm (no family law there). So, my contact with other family law attorneys (i.e. those who would have daily experience with Worley) became limited at that point.

    I think we have this one chance and I really want to help people understand the truth. Meticulously drafted and thoughtful comments and stories are key. CPS, lawyers, judges, etc know they are in the position of power and know they can dismiss anything that smacks of reactionary by simply snubbing their noses and chuckling to themselves about the “hysterical little parents”. We all know the reality is grossly different from what these folks attempt to present.

    I hope you get the Facebook page up. I will link to it from my blog. Please, please, don’t give up. All of you, put your time, effort, and passion into this cause. It really matters. I want my children to have some kind of faith in this world that justice does prevail and people who are unwise and abuse power cannot maintain that power. They have been so affected by arrogant judges, attorneys, paralegals (please read my blog about Rachel Louise French), and others who swagger around weilding their “power” like dangerous daggers until the Davids of the world step up with their slingshots. For us, the internet, our stories, fundraiser appearances, etc are our slingshots.

    Thanks,

    Shelley

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  21. Anonymous says:
    February 6, 2012 at 5:45 pm

    Rosemarie, I have some additional information and feedback. Do you have my email info?

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  22. elizabeth says:
    February 11, 2012 at 11:23 am

    I also was in Judge Worley’s court and my childrens lives have virtually been ruined by her incomprehensible rulings. Their father was verbally and emotionally and even physically abusive on several occasions….we had witnesses to testify to this. I tried to take my kids home to va where I had a job and huge family and access to the best schools but she ignored all the evidence and consistently ruled in his favor since he had the high priced attorney . My ex also cheated on me and is now living with his girlfriend and her alcoholic teenagers. Her rulings made no sense…she has no children and has never been married as far as I can tell. She doesn’t have a CLUE what she is doing believe me !!

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  23. MarkT says:
    February 22, 2012 at 10:22 pm

    Hey, I am feeling the same thing here.. in my case i was told that the North Carolina bar does not allow people to file their motions Pro Se.

    It would be nice to meet some people that are going through what I am going through, I can honestly say that I feel completely alone in the universe..

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  24. SLR says:
    February 23, 2012 at 1:19 pm

    Mark,
    I have always ordered copies of the CD recording of my hearings after they have occurred. If, indeed, Judge Worley told you that you can’t file a motion pro se, and she implicated the N.C. State Bar in support of that erroneous statement, having a recorded copy of that will help you in filing a complaint against her with the NC Judicial Standards Commission.

    Additionally, if you get this recording and are so inclined, I would love to post the recording on my blog. The public needs to hear these things.

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  25. Shelley says:
    February 27, 2012 at 9:10 pm

    Please visit the new facebook page regarding Anna Worley. Thanks!

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  26. Jeff says:
    March 1, 2012 at 1:45 am

    Karen, Irinia, Shelley,
    I think I know why you ladies are receiving maltreatment in the Wake County Courts. Your on a blog that ranks high in the search engines for Judge Worley, making wild accusations of sexual abuse, psychosis, losing marbles, etc…

    And, you are publically excoriating this Judge. You don’t think this Judge reads this page, and is able to figure out who you are via your excessive posts about your situations?

    Perhaps in your cases the fathers are winning because your on the global Internet slandering (yes, you can slander even if your claim is true) them and showing the court that you are not the better parent?

    Also, what totally astounded me in reading all these posts is that your yelling about losing, but I can assure you that you would have NO problem if the Fathers lost huh? Very Arrogant.

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    • Anonymous says:
      March 1, 2012 at 11:48 am

      Very nice Jeff, point well taken

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    • Libra Risso says:
      April 25, 2012 at 8:48 pm

      Jeff,

      It is not possible to commit the civil tort of slander if the statements made are accurate. Truth is always a defense to slander. Furthermore, slander refers to oral comments; libel refers to written comments. Both fall under the broad category of defamtion of character which, again, is a civil tort which can be defended against by offering proof of the alleged statements.

      Additionally, Jeff, you should read more carefully. Not everyone you have pinged in your intro list has fared poorly in Wake County. I stated that I was granted sole legal and primary physical. I call that, well, winning.

      The loss was the trauma that my children underwent while Worley delayed entering orders (7 months), cancelled hearings, showed up late, etc. Her administrative foibles and apparent lack of interest in the case until the situation was dire caused my three boys a great deal of suffering.

      Jeff, you embarrass yourself with your ignorance. At the very least, if you wish to throw mud, make sure you know about what you are writing. Otherwise, you just look like a fool. Like you do right now.

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  27. pkarr says:
    March 12, 2012 at 10:41 am

    What is with all these rants about judges? And anonymous, no less? this website is unbelievable (literally). Your choices brought you in front of a judge and got the state in your business. Voter choices brought this person to the bench. Use a constructive means to act on your frustration (instead of whining here).
    Work on a judge’s election campaign, study judicial standards (their discretion is rarely abused) and go somewhere else to elicit change.
    this website is awful

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    • My Kids Dad says:
      March 12, 2012 at 12:43 pm

      First, I will say thank you for your post. I am the owner of this website and I say, it’s about time there is a little opposition. Let your voice be heard…

      I do have to take exception to some of your comments however, especially as pertains to some of your contradictions and your discouragement of people exercising the constitutional right under the First Amendment.

      Contradictions… Is your real name PKARR? What about your last name? I don’t see that you provided it, yet you seem to indicate that anonymous posts indicate something negative about the post??? I would say that although I prefer POSTS include information such as names and email addresses (adding credibility), there may be real deterrents from people doing so. For example the corruption (or “discretion” as you put it) can often run so deep that retaliation is a very realistic possibility, even among the precious judges you seem to want to defend so vigorously. Once again, I think it is perfectly fine that you decided to POST anonymously, I am simply curious as to your pointing out that others should not.

      Some excellent points…
      You are exactly right about the fact that whining is generally not productive. But, let’s not discount the fact that many of the comments come from people who are severely distraught, even on the verge of, or in the midst of a mental breakdown of sorts. I’d say they deserve a bit of slack. Having said that, I do think people should heed your advise about Judicial Standards and/or the voting process for judges. I do have a few questions for you in this regard?

      1. Do you know haw many members there are in the Judicial Standards Commission (JSC) in your state.
      2. Do you know the breakdown of appointments/selections (Judges, Attorneys, Civilians, etc.)
      3. Do you know how they are chosen/appointed?
      4. Do you know that the very Code of Conduct for Judges allows for more “discretion” on the part of the JSC reviewing alleged violations to the CODE???

      Bottom line… in my humble oppinion, the JSC is questionable at best. It could certainly use some reform.

      I think there is wayyyy too much discretion being handed out. We are a nation of laws. Laws that MUST be consistent with the United States Constitution (many do not even come close – because of that word “discretion”). Family court does not allow for Jury Trial, rules of evidence are set to a much lower standard of acceptance (Hearsay is allowed, for example), Standard of proof is also much, much lower than in other courts such as clear and cogent vs. beyond a reasonable doubt (even in abuse cases???), etc.

      You seem to proclaim that “discretion is rarely abused” as if you are familiar with each and every action and/or decision rendered by the judiciary across this great country of ours… Of course that is easily determined to be “not possible.” What is possible however, is that you watch the news, read all you can about situations like the ones at this website (mine included), and then after careful consideration (and of course after weeding out the B.S.) you can easily see that there is absolutely too much abuse of discretion and abuse of power within the judicial ranks (Federal, State, and District). By the way, what is too much??? What makes “rarely” acceptable??? I say that one child being victimized, one mother, one father, one citizen, is wayyyy too much and absolutely unacceptable. Period!

      Regarding the election process. If you know anything about this process at all, you would know that many local Judges run “unopposed” (not exactly Democracy at its finest). That’s right many of our local Judges are so intimidating and coercive people don’t even want to take the chance of losing to them. Others simply do not want the job (consider Abuse, Neglect, and Dependency court). So how do you elicit change in this environment? Impeach! I did not see you mention that, but then again as a Liberal you would likely not (of course you are a liberal).

      Then there is the ever-popular “lifetime appointment” of Federal Judges and the 12 year term of Federal Magistrates. Despicable!

      How naive of you to think that everyone involved with the court system (family court in particular) must have made a choice to bring them before a Judge. Often times there is one party (even both at times) who was not even remotely involved in the decision making. Then there are those (custodial and non-custodial parents from separation and/or divorce) who making decisions hoping for a much more different outcome (more in their favor) not realizing how corrupt these social services and family court systems are (and how motivated by MONEY). CPS steals children based on false allegations and of course “anonymous calls” from angry disgruntled so-called family members more often than not. Don’t tell me you are the only person on the planet who is not at odds with a family member or two (in-laws, extended family).

      By the way, do you think that after over 40,000 visitors and almost 300 direct comments on this website over the past 10 months, that it is a bit strange that you are the FIRST to say this website is “awful?”

      NOT SO CUT AND DRY…ONE DAY THIS CRISIS MAY AFFECT YOU AND YOURS, THEN YOU WILL SEE!

      WHAT WE NEED IS THE RESTORATION OF PERSONAL AND FAMILY SOVEREIGNTY, free of government interference as provided for, by and through the United States Constitution… Judges are often the keepers of, and obviously interpreters of the LAW, nothing more or less! Interpretation is quite different than discretion.

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      • Mother says:
        March 19, 2012 at 8:35 am

        I just want to say thank you for allowing us parents that have been wronged the opportunity to expose the injustice that is occurring in this Judges court room. We now must network and never stop fighting because the precious children are the ones being afflicted.

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    • Mother says:
      March 19, 2012 at 8:26 am

      well obviously you have no idea of what is actually occuring within this Judges court room. I would not doubt that you are prob on her campaign for re-election. My child has been the one suffering from her decisions of which she made well before I had any time to speak. I can not make the injustice up if hundreds of other parents have the exact same story can I. I promise with every bone in me that I will fight that she will not be re-elected if that means protesting at the court house, making 100 blogs, calling the radio station, removing every sign for her re-election then I will. Not for myself anymore but for my children and the children to come. I want no other mother to ever have to go through what this Judge has caused on my family. AND DONT YOU WORRY I DO PLAN ON PLAYING THE AUDIO FROM MANY OF HER CASES SO THE PUBLIC CAN MAKE THEIR OWN OPINIONS.

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  28. Jeff says:
    March 21, 2012 at 9:06 am

    Mother,
    Your efforts will fail as long as your only out to help mothers instead of the for all wronged parents.

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    • My Kids Dad says:
      March 21, 2012 at 9:45 am

      Speaking for myself, our non-profit group ExposingTheRecord.org, and our website, our efforts are, and will always be: for ALL Children, Mothers, Fathers, & Families, individually and as a UNIT… In addition, restricting the government from having ANY control of the same!

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  29. A small voice says:
    April 5, 2012 at 11:43 pm

    I understand all of the frustration. I too am in a terrible situation w/ Judge Worley. She judges based on being fair v/s the actual facts. She must not get pasted the primary election in May 2012. Have any and everyone vote against her in the primary election. I will keep praying God’s will be done. Don’t give up!

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  30. Mommy says:
    April 10, 2012 at 7:10 pm

    small voice come together with me and the others to be sure that Judge Worley does not get re-elected. With elections nearing we all need to come together and protest pass out flyers and come up with a game plan to make sure this woman does not get re-elected.

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  31. Libra Risso says:
    April 25, 2012 at 6:21 pm

    Hello everyone,

    This Friday April 27, Judge Anna Worley will be hosting a campaign fundraiser at Salon 21 on Glenwood Avenue from 5:30 to 7:00 PM. I have obtained a permit to picket from the Raleigh Police Department and will be picketing from 5:30 to 7:00. We would love to have a grand show of support. If you can come for any portion of that time, we will have signs and flyers to disseminate. For those of you actively involved in internet protests of Worley, please take a stand this night. Let’s show Worley that there are real people behind the internet buzz.

    Fight Judge Worley’s Re-Election:
    On Friday, April 27th from 5:30 -7p.m.
    The public sidewalk in front of Salon 21
    21 Glenwood Avenue

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    • Anonymous says:
      May 8, 2012 at 10:46 pm

      How’d that work out for ya?

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      • My Kids Dad says:
        May 8, 2012 at 11:08 pm

        As expected, to be honest. It doesn’t mean the right choice was made. Any one of her opponents could just as quickly succumbed to the corruption in the FAMILY COURT MAFIA! The answer is Accountability – by and through impeachment if necessary. I’m just getting started. This non-profit is still in its infancy. Kangaroo Court Judge Anna Worley will be watched closely, as will the rest. CHANGE IS COMING! REALECHANGE! WE THE PEOPLE!

        Now we move on to November!!! Nagle has more than a chance against her, and right now he has my support!!!

        My kids Dad
        Ron Reale
        Executive Director, ExposingTheRecord.org

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      • Mommy says:
        September 7, 2012 at 9:41 am

        with the corruption in Family Court It went just as expected the ONLY reason she was re-elected is because her name was placed on the democratic ballot recommendations. We brought much attention to Judge Worley now wait and see when it makes the news. As long as she knows that we are watching and we are coming together that’s all I need!

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  32. Toniewlo says:
    May 2, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    Judge Worley was in charge of my domestic violence case, told me that I caused my ex’s violent behavior, and evicted me (along with my child) from my home. She has NO understanding of domestic violence issues and the continual damage her ill informed, rash decisions have on the lives of families. Thankfully she is not my family court judge. Every Judge, Lawyer, and/or police officer I have encountered are all very familiar with Judge Worley’s incompetence.

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  33. Anonymous says:
    May 8, 2012 at 10:45 pm

    The incumbent Honorable Judge Anna Worley succeeds in her re-election by obtaining more votes than both of her challengers combined. It is clear to the educated voters of Wake County who is in fact, best suited for the bench. When the facts are presented, there is no one better than Judge Worley! The people have spoken. Praise God and the work He performs!

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    • My Kids Dad says:
      May 8, 2012 at 11:14 pm

      Shameful to proclaim the name of GOD in such “anonymous” fashion. So courageous. Hmmm

      And now there will be November!!! Nagle has more than a chance to oust her! We’ll see.

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      • Anonymous says:
        May 9, 2012 at 6:25 am

        God’s work is done for His glory and praise, not mine.

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        • My Kids Dad says:
          May 9, 2012 at 7:25 am

          Then you should also know that not all things done on this earth can be claimed as GOD’S work. There needs to be fruitful evidence. Something that shows the advancement of HIS KINGDOM. There is nothing of the sort with regard to Judge Anna Worely or the Family Court Mafia. She is a sellout!

          Let us not forget that Satan roams the earth to and fro… seeking whom he may devour: 1 Peter 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.

          Seek first the kingdom of GOD… Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

          I say, Don’t bring GOD into this Family Court Mafia disaster, and don’t try to apply his principles where there is little evidence – it is rife with EVIL, of that there is no doubt!~

          I will continue to seek HIS guidance and follow the lead of the Holy Spirit as I continue to effect REALECHANGE in this retched system.

          In the end, I DO NOT believe Worley can defeat Nagle in November!!!

          http://www.ronreale2012.com

          CHANGE IS COMING!

          My kids Dad
          Ronald Reale, USMC
          Executive Director, ExposingTheRecord.org

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    • Mommy says:
      September 7, 2012 at 9:46 am

      The God you praise obviously doesnt exist because if it did then all the parents of Wake County would not have recieved the injustice that we have. We are not making these things up even her peers voted her as the worse Judge in Wake county. Ask any lawyer about her and they will all tell you that she has no idea what she is doing. She is using our innocent children as lab rats….lets try this lets try that. BUT THANKS TO THIS WEBSITE WE ARE NOW HER WORST ENEMY WE HAVE COME TOGETHER!

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  34. Mommy says:
    September 7, 2012 at 9:57 am

    Ron! I think I found us some more help as far as bringing media coverage on Family Court in Wake County this is the only way that we will be able to change anything. Contact me PLEASE @ motherjustice2012@gmail.com we have to compile our stories and get it typed up ASAP

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  35. Praying for the kids Worley has hurt says:
    October 1, 2012 at 9:40 am

    I too had Judge Worley and my entire family was shocked at her incompetence and the fact that she was practically sleeping on the bench during testimony several times. She has absolutely no idea what mental and emotional abuse is does not listen to the facts and merely sides with whatever attorney is better at twisting and distorting facts….or merely sides with the ones she is friends with. She clearly doesn’t care about any of the parties involved and has no clue on how to make rulings in favor of the children. It is my guess she had some sort of issues in her own childhood that play into her descisions or perhaps has some underlying mental disorder herself. My children were robbed of a better life and the opportunity for a better education and the opportunity to live closer to family that would be there to support them and now they are forced to spend half their time with a psychotic father who records all the phone calls in and out of the house ( among hundreds of other paranoid & controlling behaviors) and now are also exposed to living with the sons of his new wife who are into alcohol and drugs. Worley really doesn’t have ANY idea what she is doing and needs to take off a few months and sit in the court rooms of the other judge to see how it is done. The MAIN thing she needs to realize that forcing a co-parenting situation is DANGEROUS for the children and the weaker spouse. How many more stories do we have to have in NC of men killing their wives and sometimes children before that sorry excuse for a judge gets it ???

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    • Sick at Heart Grandmother says:
      October 12, 2012 at 10:15 pm

      We have been in and out of court with the HONORABLE Judge Anna Worley since January 2010. Judge Worley in September awarded my 6 year old granddaughter to her biological father. This is a very long, depressing on going saga. The father denied the child, moved out of state before she was born. He did not come into the picture UNTIL Child Support Enforcement had him have a paternity test to determine if he was her father or not. The test was positive. He was given, by Judge Rozier, in December of 2008, one weekend a month, which was done gradually, a few hours a day before he was allowed to have her overnight. In January of 2010, there was hearing in front of Judge Worley. My daughter was NOT notified of the hearing. The certificate of Service stated ADDRESS UNKNOWN, by her name. Judge Worley held the hearing. She stated to the father “I don’t have the records in front of me, so can you briefly fill me in”. The father during his testimony repeatedly lied to the judge, even telling the judge he hadn’t seen the child in months, when in fact, the day before the hearing he returned my granddaughter to her mother. This is all documented and has been brought up at later hearings. Judge Worley then awarded him four weeks with the child and then the child has four weeks with her mother. So, there is a three and a half year old child going over 2000 miles away, with no family other than a father who didn’t want her/denied her. My daughter’s lawyer filed a motion under Rule 52, because she was not notified of the hearing, Judge Worley denied it as a “moot point as she already entered her judgement”. While she was with the father, he had a girlfriend with 3 children. My daughter relocated to another state in June of 2010, the father relocated back to NC in December of 2010. My daughter filed to have jurisdiction changed to the state she lived in, but Judge Worley denied it stating that “she was familiar with the case”. This said after only one hearing in January of 2010 and NUMEROUS continuances in NC. When my granddaughter turned five and had to start Kindergarten she was still on the four week rotation schedule, so she was going to school in two different states. When my daughter enrolled her in school, the gentleman who is head of pupil services for the school system , suggested putting the child into counseling to help her with separation anxiety and the absurdity of going to two different schools, four weeks here four weeks there. In November of 2011, my granddaughter was involved with another little girl in her class doing things of a sexual nature. At that point the Department of Social Services became involved and my granddaughter disclosed to the social worker that her father had been sexually abusing her, she had just turned five years old two months earlier. The woman working with my granddaughter has 25 years experience in child sexual abuse and is considered an expert in her field. She is part of a special task force that deals only with sexually abused children. She has testified at numerous hearings, has a Master’s Degree in her field, and is continuously taking courses to stay abreast of her field. There was a custody hearing scheduled for the beginning of December, because of the timing of the hearing and the allegations being filed, the father implied that the child’s mother coached her to say those things. There was an emergency hearing which the case worker testified by telephone stating that it WAS indicated that the father was sexually abusing the child. The counselor that was working with my granddaughter also testified by telephone. Judge Worley GAVE the father his four weeks with the child, with his mother supervising his visitation. The father was not allowed to be alone with the child, nor was any male over the age of ten, which meant her brother, her step-brother all of her uncles, her grandfathers and her stepfather could not be alone with her. Judge Worley also stated that “no one was to discuss with or in front of the child, the case”. (My daughter was married in June 2011). Johnston County Social Services then became involved in January 2012. The father was asked to leave the home voluntarily and was allowed visitation once a week with a social worker. In the meantime, the child was living with his mother. The father refused to speak with the detective and would NOT take the Sexual Offenders Assessment. The child had four weeks visitation with her father in December, with his mother there. At that point the child refused to talk any further with the counselors stating “I don’t want to talk about it”. The child had a court ordered CME done in January, she also was interviewed by a doctor that Judge Worley uses for custody evaluation and psychological evaluations. Johnston County Department of Social Services filed a case against the father. We went before Judge Bryant in Johnston County for a hearing. Judge Bryant could not go against Judge Worleys visitation order, so visitation continued with four weeks/four weeks. Department of Social Services in the state where my daughter lives is not able to prosecute because the sexual abuse occurred in NC, which is how Johnston County became involved, to assist the other state. After days/hours of testimony, Judge Bryant dismissed the case because there was NO PHYSICAL EVIDENCE. However, all of the experts, counselors and Judge Worley’s psychological doctor all stated that something happened to this child and the father should not have unsupervised visitation, but supervised visitation with a social worker.
      When my granddaughter graduated from kindergarten, my daughter made the 600 mile trip here to see her graduate. The father had gone to Las Vegas to pick up his “soon to be wife” according to his mother. The “soon to be wife” some time in August, moved back to Las Vegas and the new “soon to be wife” is in the picture. Is this an odd pattern to anyone else???
      Since the hearing in September, my daughter received a letter from Social Services in her home state. There were new allegations reported in June 2012, after my granddaughter returned back to her mother. My granddaughter underwent another CME at Rainbow Babies and Children’s Hospital and once again, their findings were indicated, meaning there was sexual abuse. They can not provide any services at this time because the child is in NC, with the abuser, thanks to Judge Worley’s ruling.
      While at home with her mother, my granddaughter was in counseling four and sometimes five days a week. The counselor would be at my daughter’s home and make visits at school. She has had NO counseling during any of her visitation with her father. Judge Worley ordered him to find a counselor within two weeks, that was on September 28th, today makes two weeks. There has been no counseling appointments set up. My granddaughter has been with him since September 17th.
      We are still waiting for the fathers attorney to draft the newest court order. That still hasn’t been done yet, so since nothing new has been signed and filed, the old court order should still be in effect, no?
      Judge Worley has NEVER once said a word, in our MANY court sessions, about what is BEST for the child. No child should have had to have that kind of visitation put on them. To have to go to Kindergarten in two different states is absolutely absurd. To take a child and place her with her father, taking her away from her mother, step father, brother and stepbrothers, all of her cousins, great grandmother, aunts, uncles, just to name a few, is beyond belief. All the people who have loved, nurtured and cared about her since birth. Separated her from them by 600 miles. This is in the child’s best interests??? Social Services have signed documents that my daughter and her husband are very fit parents, their home is safe and secure for ALL of the children. Her father has refused to cooperate with anyone!! To place a child with a father who has two charges of “INDICATED” sexual abuse, making him a sexual predator is SICK!!!!
      After the hearing in September, I stated that I have no faith in the judicial system. My son stated it even better “Today I not only lost hope in our court system, but also in the human race as a whole” . How is it that state lines can not be crossed to prosecute sexual predators? Who is supposed to keep our children safe when the people we elect to do so, are not capable of doing it?? Judge Worley’s “judgement”, with NO explanation as to why she ruled this way, has totally crushed our entire family. We are so worried about our precious daughter, granddaughter, sister, niece, cousin. She has lost her innocence at the hands of a monster, and was then placed in his hands by Judge Worley.
      How do we let people like this judge us and make decisions like this??? I have never felt so totally helpless, nor have I spent so much money on something that NEVER should have happened, because HAD Judge Worley had the records from Judge Rozier, had she not had the hearing without my daughter being there, had she not violated my daughter’s rights my granddaughter may NOT have lost her innocence and been put in her fathers hands with her blessings. I don’t know how that woman sleeps at night, I know we don’t!!

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      • Las Vegas Cares says:
        October 20, 2012 at 1:23 pm

        To Sick at Heart Grandmother:
        I am no longer the “soon to be wife” to your granddaughters’ Father (thank goodness). It’s very clear to me now that the Father was just “using me” to make the Mother jealous and to have a “Step-Mommy” figure around to make him “look good” to the Judge for his final custody hearings. I guess he thought being “married” would help his case, not because he loved me, at the same time planning to take off back to Texas and was okay with leaving me behind in NC. What kind of “fiancé” is that? This so-called Father just uses women for what he can take from them and when that doesn’t work out for him, he treats them like “Trash”….that is the “odd pattern” here with this father. Thank God that I finally woke up to his deception and who knows what else he “lied” to me about. I wish that I had never let him into my life. I will continue to pray for your granddaughter’s SAFETY! God Bless her!

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      • Las Vegas Cares says:
        November 1, 2012 at 4:51 pm

        This story just keeps getting better. All Mothers Beware: The Father has threatened to post online intimate/prov. pictures shared during the relationship and engagement with his ex-fiancé (pics that he’s obviously keeping on his phone for a reason). WOW! This is a Father who claims to be a true Christian….what kind of Christian values are those? No this is just another example of how he treats women like Trash when his Lies are exposed. I guess he must want to fight all of his ex-girlfriends in court for the rest of his life. I can’t believe that I ever loved and trusted this guy and thank God I didn’t marry this Fake Christian. Mothers don’t make the same mistake I did. Hard Lesson Learned!

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  36. Michael D. Hines, Jr. says:
    October 2, 2012 at 11:42 am

    September 29, 2012

    Judiciary Standards Commission
    P.O. Box 1122
    Raleigh, NC 27602

    RE: Case Number 12CVD 4427 and 12 SP 1258

    I am Michael Demetrius Hines, Jr., the father of Michelle Grace Perazzo, and I am writing this letter to express my frustration with the handling of the custody hearing at the Wake County Raleigh Courthouse. I am very concerned about the appearance of fairness in the handling of this administrative proceeding. In the beginning of February of 2012, my daughter’s mother and I were involved in a heated argument concerning her treatment of our infant daughter. At that time, my daughter’s mother would yell at our, then, 6 month old child and smoke marijuana around her. I was unwilling to condone the behavior, confronted her and as a result, our communication broke down for several days.
    When I finally received a call from my Michelle’s mother several days later, she informed me explicitly that I would never see Michelle again and she did not want me in her life at all. She subsequently discontinued all communication and would not accept any of my phone calls. I made repeated attempts to communicate and even resorted to writing letters in an effort to maintain some level of civility so that I could have a relationship with Michelle.
    Sometime in early March of 2012 I learned from a mutual friend that Michelle’s mother gave her up for adoption without notifying me. To this day, I have never denied being Michelle’s father as reflected in my facilitation of 1) the DNA paternity test in which the results confirmed that I am the biological father, 2) my name on Michelle’s birth certificate and 3) signed declaration to the Department of Revenue Child Support Enforcement of my intent to support Michelle financially and medically. This was an act of spite and malice from Michelle’s mother. It is also negligence on the part of the adoption agency, Amazing Grace Adoptions, whose staff and attorney had an obligation under North Carolina General Statute § 48:3 to make a good faith effort to properly notify me of my rights, but failed to do so in a reasonable and timely manner. It was not until I secured legal representation and filed a motion with the court that I was subsequently served notification by the adoption agency of a petition to adopt.
    As Michelle’s father, I have rights and responsibilities when it comes to my daughter. North Carolina family law dictates that both mother and father are treated equally by the state’s court system, and that judges make decisions based on the best interests of the children. I believe I have not been treated equally and there is a concerted effort to intentionally delay having this custody matter heard. I believe there is an intentional strategy to continue delaying the hearing of this matter so as to give the adoption agency and Christian Life Home an unfair advantage to argue a best interest case in favor of the adoptive parents. I believe it is in Michelle’s best interest to be raised by me with the love, support and infrastructure from her uncles and grandparents where we reside in Cary. However, I do not have faith in the current state’s system given what I have experienced and how I have been treated by the parties involved – my daughter’s mother, the adoption agency staff and attorney, Christian Life Home, where my daughter’s mother resides, the adoptive parents attorney, who are now prematurely involved, and the state’s court system. I have been completely out-numbered by the number of people that have been allowed in the court room none of whom are for me, or look like me and my attorney. I, therefore, believe there is hidden bias resulting from behaviors that prevent them from managing this legal matter in an inclusive way and as a result, it is preventing me from being treated fairly in the current state court’s process.
    I feel strongly that no one really cares how I feel about my daughter because all I ever hear is, “What does the mother want?” or “How does the mother feel?” but nothing in regards to Michelle’s need for security, stability, love, and identity which can only come from knowing her God-given, immediate paternal family. I love my daughter with all of my heart, and can and will provide for her all of which was presented to the courts. Michelle’s mother already gave her up her rights and was not fair in communicating that to me. She put her own self-interests above Michelle’s. However, I did not give up my rights and my interests are for Michelle. I would like an opportunity to raise my daughter.
    I also believe that this custody case is motivated by money. When adoption agencies, like Amazing Grace Adoptions puts a baby up for adoption they receive payment in the amount of approximately $50,000. Also, the adoptive parents are compensated by the state until the child is 18 years old. So, my question is why are the parties involved fighting so hard against my motion for custody if they care so much about Michelle’s interests? How fair is it that the adoptive parents can hire an attorney BEFORE the adoption hearing to intercede even after the father has made his petition known? How can I get a fair shot at raising my daughter when Amazing Grace Adoptions personnel and their attorney take no responsibility for not properly following the law? There are a lot of statistics regarding absent fathers, but I do not have any intention of being one of them. How can I get a fair shot at demonstrating that if the process is already designed to work against me? I have not seen my daughter since February, and they have illegally had her for an extended period of time. What I know about the family is that they have several children of their own and now that I have made my intentions known, I think it is only fair they release all claim of petition to adopt my daughter.
    Since this custody case has started, Michelle’s mother, the Christian Life Home and Amazing Grace Adoptions, have tried to do everything to get me removed from this custody matter. For starters, my daughter’s mother lied about the February 2011 incident which led to me being accused and arrested for assault on a female. Please keep in mind that I had recently took time off from college and had no prior record of any kind. What actually happened in February 2011 was that I tried to rescue my daughter’s mother from killing herself, who at the time threatened to jump off the second story apartment balcony during the first trimester of her pregnancy. My concern at that time was for my daughter’s mother and our unborn child. What I thought was a rescue attempt was turned into an accusation of domestic violence.
    I was subsequently charged with assault on a female, false imprisonment and violating a court order. A young, African American male in love with someone outside of his race is still not easily accepted in society and not particularly in the state of North Carolina from my experience. Despite my daughter’s mother request to the D.A. that the charges be dropped, the D.A. wanted a show no leniency in support of the domestic violence laws. Fearing a heavy jail sentence, I opted to take a plea, plead guilty to the assault on a female, was given 2 years probation with a requirement to complete D.O.S.E. (anger management) treatment and Safe Child classes. I am not proud of this but the thought of going to jail certainly was not appealing.
    As recently as June of 2012, my daughter’s mother and the Christian Life Home, concocted yet another story to get me once and for all out of my daughter’s life. My daughter’s mother visited me at work where I gave her permission to borrow my car until I got off work that evening. It was during this incident she threatened to call the police on me when I refused to submit to her irrational requests. She did not return my car that evening but unbenounced to me, drove to the court magistrate’s office and blatantly lied to have charges filed that I assaulted her, communicated threats and violated probation, which would have automatically given me one year in county jail. I was arrested again. She also filed a restraining order earlier that week and it was granted by Judge Worley, who is also the same judge presiding over this custody hearing. However, the D.A. (not the one from my first charge) read a letter my daughter’s mother emailed to me in which, by her own admission, stated that she had lied about the whole thing, indicated that the people in the magistrates’ office were dumb and accused Judge Worley of being stupid. Although I am forever grateful that the D.A. dismissed all three charges in that case, I feel there is no accountability being leveraged at the Christian Life Home or the house parents who appear to be partial toward certain girls at the home, or Adoption agency for all have had some level of direct and negative influence over my daughters’ mother to support a very deceptive agenda in making these false attempts to try and separate me and my family from my daughter’s life.
    My family, my mom and dad in particular, have yet to see or hold Michelle Grace despite their longing desire. North Carolina law is not favorable toward the grandparents who want a right to be involved in their grandchildren’s lives. My parents have wisdom, years of experience raising six children and currently have five grandchildren. It is unfair to me that my parents were denied the opportunity to be intimately involved in decisions concerning Michelle Grace by the Christian Life Home, who claim to be guided by Christian principles and Amazing Grace Adoption. Michelle has a right to have a relationship with her God-given, biological grandparents, who are, in my estimate, much better examples of modeling Christian values of restoration and reconciliation in comparison to the Christian Life Home. Be aware fathers and expecting mothers, Christian Life Home is not who they say they are. I want Michelle to be raised in our home with my family where she can get to know her grandparents, aunts, uncles and numerous cousins. I love Michelle and can provide a warm, loving home for her. And what I lack in experience, my family is willing to support and strengthen me on through love and guidance.
    I have also not been treated fairly by the adoptive parents’ attorney who have inserted themselves into the process, isolated me of having any support outside of legal representation in the court room and tried to turn over every rock in my personal life looking to establish me as unfit parent. It is unfair to unreasonably argue that my consent is not necessary and that my daughter can be adopted without it because of financial circumstances. The statute the adoptive parents’ attorney are using to make the argument is unfair and gives the birth mother too much say and unilateral control in what happens to Michelle when it took two of us to conceive her. I have taken the appropriate steps under G.S. 48 3 601 to establish that my consent is necessary. What has been conveniently overlooked is the fact that I have consistently kept a job during this fiasco, completed my D.O.S.E. treatment and Safe child classes and am determined to finish the last five months of the two-year probation sentence so that I can get my life back on track. Despite my probation, I feel that I have a strong case if I can get “a fair and impartial hearing before an unbiased judge.” This is elemental to the concepts of fundamental fairness inherit in administrative proceedings.
    I have been fighting continually to get my daughter back. A motion was filed with the court in March 2012 requesting a hearing that my consent as the biological father is required. The North Carolina General Statute 48 2 206 specifically states that “promptly on receipt of the petitioner’s motion, the court shall set a date for the hearing no earlier than 60 days nor later than 70 days after the biological father received the notice required by subsection (a) of this section and shall notify the petitioner and the biological father of the date, time, and place of the hearing. To date, the hearing has been changed six times to October 10th of 2012.
    While I refuse to bad mouth Judge Worley in this case, I want to make it clear that I am not confident in the Wake County court system. I am a registered voter but feel Wake County’s Family court system has failed me as a young African American father. The method of calendaring cases is illogical, unfair to the parties involved and unnecessarily prolongs serious and emotional issues. I have followed North Carolina’s law by way of acknowledging myself as the father described earlier, but am still denied my God-given, legal right and chance to father my little girl. I love my daughter Michelle with everything, and I deserve the right to raise her. Yes, I am young and I admittedly have made some idiotic and irrational decisions which I am paying for. But that should not supersede a father’s desire to rehabilitate himself, mature and love on his daughter. Let the record show that I am Michelle Grace Perazzo Hines’ father, Michael Demetrius Hines, Jr., and I would like to be given an opportunity to raise my daughter.
    Sincerely,
    Michael D. Hines, Jr.
    Michael D. Hines, Jr.
    603 Royal Tower Way
    Cary, NC 27513
    919-454-0389

    Cc: Honorable Judge Robert Rader

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    • myles says:
      October 31, 2012 at 4:35 am

      your story made me cry. my wife left me after ten years of marraige an took my daughter. Have not seen them in 11 months an i will be in court with judge worley Dec. 3. You an i are good men, we deserve to be fathers to our girls.

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  37. myles says:
    October 31, 2012 at 4:47 am

    btw, when my wife didnt even show up the other day… i was pleasantly surprised that judge worley seemed very cool and vibrant. I think no one should give her a hard time, she seems very intelligent and fair, hope she lets me see my little girl. Ive never abused anyone in my life. My wife left me without regard or notice….

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  38. justice4ourchildren says:
    November 7, 2012 at 8:11 am

    Well looks like this woman is going to screw up some more of our children and rob them of all their innocence. I am completely heart broken and very saddened of the outcome. We all need to keep up the hard work and keep trying to get the evil out of the court system.

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    • My Kids Dad says:
      November 7, 2012 at 8:26 am

      Yes, but this process hopefully has forced her (and other judges) to take a hard look at themselves. Remember it’s not about the “person” but rather their actions, how they conduct themselves, and ultimately the dispensing of FAIR, IMPARTIAL JUDGEMENT! It’s about JUSTICE! We shall soon see if she (they) have heard the voice of the people. This website received record numbers of hits per day over the past 3-4 weeks. Judge Worley was at the TOP for “page-views” that entire time, Judge Bousman coming in second. All Judges on this website received significant views. We are not going anywhere. Still looking to proceed with impeachment process wherever necessary!!! They must be held accountable!!!

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  39. What a joke! says:
    November 7, 2012 at 9:33 am

    Between this website and your “valiant” attempt for election, you are truly an “ass”et to society!

    NC House Dist 40
    Ron Reale 1913 votes 4%

    What a child abusing clown you are! Get a life!

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    • My Kids Dad says:
      November 7, 2012 at 9:46 am

      Hey genius. You should “mask” your IP address better if you want to be anonymous. I mean “What a Joke?” – is that your real name?

      My facebook statement:

      Well, I have to say THANK YOU to all of my supporters. I am blessed. Many would be quick to state that 1840 votes (give or take) is nothing, or not much at all.

      I SAY THAT IS ALMOST 5% OF THE VOTE IN THIS DISTRICT! I SAY THAT I DID NOT HAVE TIME TO RAISE ONE RED CENT. I ASK, WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF I ACTUALLY HAD THE TIME TO MOUNT A REAL EFFORT, A REAL CAMPAIGN?

      These results were well more than I ever expected. As many of you know I was not planning to run for office this term. I have always been planning a legitimate run with a real effort and coordinated plan of attack in 2014. Then I had a second thought; I could join the race and make them work that much harder for their seat, while doing my best with what I have, to be an example for my kids. I could maybe even shed some light on this dark world and and these corrupt systems of government, courts, and state authorities and judges that “We the people” must contend with each and every day.

      SO THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH! THIS IS JUST THE BEGINNING. I WILL BE BACK IN 2014. I WILL BE INVOLVED IN HOLDING THESE NEWLY ELECTED AND RE-ELECTED OFFICIALS ACCOUNTABLE IN THE MEAN TIME. GOD BLESS OUR STATE, OUR COUNTRY, AND GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU.

      ALWAYS STAND FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN. NEVER BE INTIMIDATED OR COERCED. STAND STRONG! LOVE YOUR KIDS! ALWAYS BE THEIR SHINING EXAMPLE. THEY ARE OUR FUTURE!

      I AM ENCOURAGED TONIGHT! BECAUSE OF EACH OF YOU! THANK YOU!

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  40. Looking for the truth?? You won't find it here!! says:
    November 8, 2012 at 6:16 pm

    Why won’t you allow the people to read about the real Ron Reale, the one that his own stepson knows?? Exactly…you fraud! To claim CPS “took” your children and place blame on others for your own poor decisions…you sound like some of the other “wonderful parents” on this pity party site. Birds of a feather flock together and this ridiculous site is evidence of that. Good day sir. I know you won’t post this entire comment!
    http://www.change.org/petitions/ron-reale-stop-lying-to-the-people-of-america-about-how-innocent-you-are

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    • My Kids Dad says:
      November 8, 2012 at 7:49 pm

      Actually, you should know by now that EVERYTHING GETS APPROVED on this site except for inappropriate language, threats or anything of a similar nature. I fear none of these baseless allegations. There is simply NO WAY any of these moronic comments could ever be substantiated, backed up, or found to be credible in any way! To start with, they are all anonymous to the reader (though not to me). By the way using a mobile hotspot as you are using does not protect you any better… Secondly, these comments, like your own are often very simplistic (grossly lacking in any detail). You see, details can be followed up on and discredited quite easily (or proven true if in fact they are true).

      So I apologize for the delay in approving and/or responding to your precious post. The truth is, I have a day job, and I get to this site when I can. I will see what I can do to expedite your comments in the future…

      Regarding the link you have provided to change.org/petitions/ron-reale-stop-lying-to-the-people-of-america-about-how-innocent-you-are… As you also know this is not the first time I have been accused of abuse. Is that a secret? Among other allegations, let me remind you of the following comment (see below) specifically; and I will include my response (also see below) to that comment which can also be found on this very website where it has been Since April of this year… You should know that the link you have provided will be quite openly discussed when it is presented as evidence in my Federal Action. It has already been discussed with certain Gov’t officials, Wake County CPS, the Wake County Guardian ad Litem, and others. This link was written and posted when my son was still only 17 and in the custody of Wake County Human Services. It was written with the help of several named defendants in the Federal Action. The fact that it is still on the web is great news to me, as it only gets more powerful for me each day that it exists. So, on the contrary, you should be well aware that I’m happy to post these lies (including this link) as it gives me the opportunity to respond; from there it is simply left to the reader (and of course the Jury in the pending Federal Action).

      Submitted on 2012/04/05 at 12:49 pm
      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA YOU WANNA KNOW WHY I STARDED CUTTING?!?! ITS BECAUSE OF YOU!! YOU DID IT IT WAS YOUR FAULT!! I WANTED TO HURT YOU BUT INSTEAD I HURT MYSELF AND IT MADE ME FEEL GOOD!! OK AND THE REASON WHY I WAS PUT ON DRUGS WAS BECAUSE I WOULD HAVE NIGHTMARES ABOUT YOU!!! NIGHTMARES OF THE PAST! DO YOU REMEMBER THE TIME WHEN YOU GOT MAD THAT I DIDNT CLEAN UP HANNAH AND SARAHS ROOM SO YOU GRABED ME BY THE NECK AND SLAMED ME INTO THE WALL AND SPIT IN MY FACE AND CALLED ME A PUSSY AND BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF ME!?!?! DO YOU?!?! OH WHAT ABOUT THE TIME WHEN YOU MADE ME EAT MY OWN PUKE BECAUSE I WOULDNT EAT YOUR SLAW THAT YOU MADE?!?! AND WHAT ABOUT THE TIME WHEN YOU KICKED ME IN THE BACK BECAUSE I SPILT OIL ON THE PORCH!! MY BACK IS STILL NUMB FROM THAT!!! OH WHAT ABOUT THE TIME WHEN YOU TOOK MY HEAD AND SLAMED MY FACE ON THE COUNTER BECAUSE I GOT A MATH QUESTION WRONG!!! PARENTAL RIGHTS? HAHA DONT MAKE ME LAUGH!! I DONT ANY LOVE FPR YOU SO STOP THINKING THAT I DO!!! I HATE YOU AND I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU LOOSE!!

      oh dont worry stephen knows what youve done because he is old enough to relize. AND DO NOT PUT MY FACE OR MY NAME ON THIS STUPID SITE about how musch i love you because i hate your guts! and i wna your ass in jail so my mother and m siblings can live a normal life! OR I WILL PRESS CHAGES AGAINST YOU!

      dont you ever talk about my father like that ….and i swear if you lay one hand on my mother i will put your ass in jail. you may be foolin everyone else but your not fooling me. and i will work everybone in my body to take you down…and im allready in the works of it…i may only be a kid but im going to do whatever it takes to protect my mother… and my brothers and sissters from you…and FYI MY SO CALLED “DEAD BEAT FATHER” IS THE BEST FATHER I CAN AKS FOR!!!! HE HAS BEEN PAYING CHILDS SUPPORT YOU LIER!! YOU JUST BEEN KEEPING THAT MONEY FOR YOURSELF!!! BECAUSE YOUR A SELFISH SON OF A BITCH! AND I FEEL SORRY FOR EVERYONE WHO BELIEVES THIS LITTLE WEBSITE YOU HAVE! IM NOT THE “BOY” THAT YOU USED TO THINK I AM!!! YOUR NEVER GOING TO WIN….I WONT LET YOU…

      Submitted on 2012/04/08 at 10:29 am | In reply to Anonymous.
      First, let me say that you are always welcome to comment on this and other websites and/or facebook pages, but I would ask that you refrain from using inappropriate language…

      To quickly address your “dead beat father” I can only provide the facts to you and you can certainly verify them with mom. He abandoned you twice in your life. The first time was when you were just 12 months or so. You and your mom came into my life with your older sister Melissa when you were 15 months.

      In 2001 your mom’s family decided to track him down and “use him” to sue us for custody since we moved from California to Florida (they wanted us back in California). Eventually they found him living several hours north of them in California. He agreed to participate. During this effort by mom’s family he abandoned you and your sister for a second time (you should remember this somewhat since you were 7-years-old) – long story short, he never showed up for court after his attorney quit (the attorney paid for by your mom’s family). He was then assessed over $40,000 in back support and ordered to pay current support of about $1,050 per. month. He did not make any payments (current or back support). In fact, he did not pay one cent of support until 2009 (through forced paycheck garnishment) when you were approximately 15-years-old. From that point the payments stopped coming (whenever he switched jobs) two or three times and started up again once the State of California located him and forced a garnishment once again. He has never paid voluntarily. He owes your mother and me over $100,000.00+ to become current. Those payments will be due and will continue to be garnished from his check long after you turn 18 in May, until paid in full.

      Regarding Stephen… Your brother has NEVER spoken negatively in any way, to anyone, about anything to do with life in our home. Not of me, mom, or even our home-life in general. Nothing! He speaks freely about accountability and discipline when asked. Regarding discipline, he recognizes and seems to specifically articulate to others that he was ONLY punished when there was a need, and he further reports of things like being sent to bed early and other types of restrictions. He reports of neither “beatings” nor anything else of the sort. No eating Puke, No Punching, No Kicking, or any other type of abuse for that matter. The same is true of Matthew, Hannah, Sarah, Joseph, and Benjamin if they even speak of such things at all.

      It seems clear that anything negative Stephen knows of, and/or may/may not believe, is based on what you’ve been feeding him. It’s better described as confusion. In fact it is also clear that he does not know what to believe at times. It seems you have been very aggressively trying to bring him into your fold and deeper into this world of corruption. He is only 13 (just turned 13) and does not need to have his brain filled with such despicable filth. He brings away lots of questions from your conversations? For example, he wanted to know why I was dishonorably discharged from the Marines. Really??? I seem to remember serving 8 years and receiving an honorable discharge with a 1A re-enlistment code! Stephen says you told him this, among other things. Everything he repeats he has a hard time explaining with any detail but easily remembers the source (YOU). Your sister Melissa has even told him that he cannot believe anything you say (according to Stephen). And by the way your older Sister Melissa (now 22-years-old) has never reported any abuse. Why is that? She lived in our home until 19½-years-old. This is not good Timmy. Whatever has fueled your anger, please leave your brothers and sisters out of it.

      I can’t help but notice that you don’t mention Matthew (11-years-old) who of course is close enough in age to Stephen to also understand what is going on… Most likely you have not been able to affect him as easily or at all. CPS and even the courts have not been able to take advantage of Matthew as he regularly demands visits and/or to come home with mom and me (from the beginning). All this says to me is that you are learning your tricks from CPS – going after the weaker, and when I say weaker I mean to say Stephen wants to please everyone and that makes him an easy target. Age has nothing to do with this. In any case, you should leave them all out of it. Shame on anyone who will take advantage of the precious mind of a child!

      So, I caused you to start cutting? Is that what they told you? Of course it is. That’s what they wanted you to believe or at least what they wanted to you to repeat at some later date and time (like now, even if it is two years later). They had to give you an excuse. It’s called brainwashing, parental alienation, even witchcraft by some of us, among other things!!! It is shameful and despicable, but not a huge surprise. This is in keeping with all the research I have done over the past two years. Social Workers, so-called mental health professionals, even members of the legal community and court officers are all feeding from the same trough. They have the same agenda – MONEY! They’re all making money at the expense of children and families. In order to keep the money flowing, they MUST keep control of their product (kids/teens like you, your brothers and sisters).

      Let’s look at a few things. You and I have not seen each other since March 2010. This was not your choice but rather a decision made by your mother while she and I were having our share of marital problems. She should never have involved you kids and she should never have involved social services. She absolutely should have never left North Carolina for California. She should never have fabricated any charges of abuse. As you know, she and I are together now and are fighting every day for the return of our children, you included. Just a note as to my contribution to these events when this all started: false allegations aside, I should have been a much better father and husband thereby preventing her from feeling the need to leave our home. I take responsibility for that.

      You and I last spoke on June 22, 2010. This conversation was before they (CPS) came for you and was while you were still staying at grandma and papa’s house in Nevada. During that conversation you said; “I love you and I miss you, and I’m sorry for what they are doing to you.” I remember in response telling you that I don’t care what they are doing to me; I don’t like what they are trying to do to you kids and how they are trying to involve you kids, I just wish they all knew the truth. You quickly responded; “I know the truth.” To which I responded “that’s good enough for me, hang in there and be good for grandma and papa.” We have not spoken since…

      Your cutting started in September 2010. You had met a girl who you claimed to be “in love with.” Not the same girl you were “in love with” in Pittsburgh just a few months earlier. But this new girl was a cutter, right? Wasn’t it determined that you were cutting to impress her? Sure it’s very easy to assign blame for such an act (like blaming me now), but that doesn’t make it true. So you want people to believe that you waited until 6 months of having “no contact” with me before you started cutting because of me???

      What about the circumstances and experiences you faced since we last saw each other? You were pulled “kicking and screaming,” even crying (understandably) from grandma and papa’s house in Nevada by the police department (you had been fraudulently reported missing by NC CPS, which is odd since mom and I told them exactly where you were). Expressing your anger over this unlawful act committed against you, you went on to vandalize the boy’s home (Child Haven) they threw you in, you were then officially kidnapped by Julie Riggins and CPS when they came for you in Nevada (this is being addressed in my $20,000,000 lawsuit against them), only to throw you in another boy’s home (Wrenn House) in Raleigh.

      Eventually you were dumped off with your 24-year-old cousin Natasha over 150 miles from any REAL adult or any semblance of accountability, and then you REALLY started to spin out of control; all this while being deprived of your mother and myself (also over 150 miles away and being denied visits). You were regularly in trouble in school, and would often not even come home at night. You continued to make poor decisions (under duress) by barging into the home of this teenage girl and threatening to assault her and/or members of her family (at least that’s what they are telling me). This event was apparently the last straw when CPS decided to remove you from your kinship placement and consequently threw you back into the boy’s home (Wake House) in Raleigh (still denying contact with mom or me).

      While in Wake House for over 3 months you were drugged and continued to commit similar acts of defiance. This is where you now claim you were having nightmares about the “past” and/or about “me.” The reason I’m such an easy target for you in this regard is that they (CPS,the courts, mom’s family, even mom herself in the beginning) made me your target and have been drilling it into you ever since. While at Wake House (also named in my Federal Lawsuit) you would regularly escape, you vandalized your school, and you were even arrested at least twice for shoplifting and vandalism. Apparently you were caught on camera “kissing a boy” and that picture was posted on the internet. Again, all this while being deprived of your parents, also noting that none of this ever took place in our home for over 16 years. Nothing even close!!!

      I guess what I’m getting at, is that you are 18-years-old now, and are more than able to think for yourself. You may not have liked the accountability and/or the discipline in our home, but you NEVER even thought of cutting, taking drugs, running away, or an of the other forms of delinquency you have since been exposed to.

      By the way – NIGHTMARES; we’re all having nightmares!!! Including you no doubt! It’s your brothers and sisters who are having nightmares; it’s your mother and I who are having nightmares. But not from anything prior to this evil empire kidnapping each of you and locking each of you away in various places against your will and ours! Drugs are not the answer! Returning you all to your family and re-establishing our family unit has been the answer from the beginning! PERIOD! It has been my fight from the beginning, and it will remain might fight!

      Most of all you should know that none of this is your fault. It is this retched system you and your brothers and sisters were thrust into!!! Of course none of your new found family members were ever made to endure such torture!!! That’s why it’s so easy for them to embrace and support what is happening to all of you, and the fact that it really doesn’t affect their lives in any way.

      To address the accusations you make, I can only say that these are the same allegations that were fabricated by your mother with the help of her family and social services. You already know this of course. I’m sure you think adding them to your comment as part of expressing your anger for this whole situation will make them more truthful or at least more believable. Let’s start with the “puke” mentioned… You may or may not know it but this goes all the way back to 2001. The truth is your grandmother (your mom’s mom) did not like that you and your older sister were required to eat all of your food at meals so your grandmother concocted this allegation and called CPS to investigate. I find it hard to believe that you would even remember any of this since you was only 6-years-old when this allegation was first fabricated, but it was well documented then and now. Do you remember when CPS came to your class in Kindergarten to question you about this and you said you were never forced, or even asked to eat “throw up?” Then your sister, your mother and I of course also denied this was ever took place in our home. I still have the documented final report with findings of “NO ABUSE” from the 2001 investigation. The words being used today are vomit and now PUKE as you describe in your comment. It’s amazing how the words get more and more inflammatory as the LIES get harder and harder to prove – stronger words get more attention and are more believable I guess… I also remember that during that same year you were climbing on the open bottom drawer of a dresser while watching TV. The TV fell off and basically just missed you. It was very scary. Your grandmother included in her complaint that I threw the TV off the dresser on top you???

      And what about slamming your face into the counter? I wonder if you could tell me when and where this happened. I know the answer to that already, and so do you. You cannot, because it never did. What is clear however is that you are recalling from the document your mom has admitted to fabricating and putting in your pocket at the courthouse in California (remember she also put a copy of these fabrications in Stephen, Matthew, Hannah, and Sarah’s pockets? Joseph and Benjamin were too young.). By the way, the original allegation spoke of you getting spelling words wrong and now you state that it was a math problem. Maybe a small point when it comes to the serious nature of the allegation, but I can’t help but wonder how the details get mixed up at all (if the event were even remotely true)?

      Do you remember on your first trip to California when mom asked you if there was anything, anything at all you can think of that she could make sound like abuse to give to the judge so dad could not come and force you all to return to North Carolina. Do you remember when you said; “no I can’t think of anything.” This was in response to the California Social Worker instructing your mom to write down some stronger allegations, stronger than the original allegations of verbal abuse she had already included in her original request for a California Domestic Violence Protective Order. The Social Workers told her that if she did not, the children would have to return to North Carolina by order of the NC Court. You see; if your mom did not file for a Domestic Violence Protective Order while in California she was potentially in violation of the law and various parental kidnapping statutes (and she knew this).

      So now your back injury, described as being “still numb” from when I kicked you (by the way when this injury was first alleged it was described as a punch, and your mother later admitted it was completely fabricated and derived from an accidental injury you sustained in 2009). We both know when this occurred (2009) and how it occurred. Yes you spilled grease while cleaning the grill and you slipped on the grease. And yes you were even slightly injured, but of course you were never kicked as described, or even punched. In fact, your mother asked you that very evening as I recall why you were walking funny and you explained it to her in the same way I just described. So how is it you can make it through an entire ice hockey season with a numb back? You just finished playing an entire season of ice hockey, right? And it was also my understanding that you could not complete an obstacle course at some time in 2011 and subsequently complained of a “bad back” from an injury your dad gave you. It seems you were taken to the doctor to follow up on your complaint and no injury was found.

      When you state that you can’t wait to see me “loose” I can’t help but wonder where that comes from. Loose how? I have already lost, your mom has lost, you, your brothers and sisters have already lost. We can only do our best to move forward and make progress. Progress in that we can somehow bring our family back together. Maybe you are speaking of losing the battle to do just that, bring our family back together. But then I would ask WHY? Why would you wish for such a thing? You know the truth about our life together (especially compared to the nightmare you and your brothers and sisters have endured since). Oh sure, in our home there was accountability, responsibility, and even discipline whenever necessary and you may not have liked those things, but never abuse or neglect; and clearly looking back you must be able to see, and certainly feel that the last two years pale in comparison. In fact I would absolutely describe the last two years as being littered with abuse and neglect while you have all been in the custody of CPS.

      I see this very concept over and over again at various times and in various ways throughout this case; People like your mom and others, fabricating and manipulating facts to cover up previous fabrications and/or manipulations, people lying to cover up previous lies (relatives and social workers), people committing unlawful acts to cover up previous unlawful acts (judges and court officers), and so on. There seems no end to the corruption or the cover up!!!

      Again, none of this is your fault. TRULY, NONE OF IT! It may sound like I am blaming you but I am simply pointing out facts in response to some very serious allegations. I do challenge you to overcome this “victim” mentality however. Clearly this process, the various CPS agents and/or so-called mental health professionals have taught you to be a “victim,” have taught you that it’s OK to be a “victim.” This is what they do! This is what sustains their very existence! They cannot survive without “victims.” I promise you this! Now you are proclaiming that status. I challenge you to overcome this attitude and remember that even if this concept of being a “victim” was acceptable (and it is to a certain degree – in certain circumstances), it would certainly only apply to REAL “victims.” You have the power to put a stop to it; at least to the extent that you participate or agree to be involved in any way. As you grow older and more mature you must be sensing these things on your own. I suggest you welcome your new feelings and accept this responsibility to the “truth” with open arms as they come. I know you have a lot to overcome after all you have been through, but someday you will see that you have that strength. If you are a victim of anything it is of this corrupt system, and even then I would challenge you to overcome and push past this evil.

      Never feel embarrassed or ashamed of what you have been through. I take full responsibility for not being able to protect you, for being taken completely by surprise that such a system even existed. But, now that I know, I am educating myself and I am setting out to eradicate this entire system of corruption. I hope someday you can forgive me for not protecting you, your brothers, and your sisters form this nightmare. If not, I will understand (but I will encourage you to try hard) as I have yet to convince myself that I will ever have what it takes forgive those involved. For that shortfall, I will certainly have to answer to my father in heaven. You should realize that these people have committed worse acts on others. There is always someone suffering just that much more than you, or any of us for that matter.

      This system of corruption and the likes of Julie Riggins, Saundra Judd and the very many others have manipulated, coerced and intimidated people much older than you and with much more experience in life. But, make no mistake, they prey on the weakest among us like children, teens like yourself, and women like your mother. The goal of this corruption, CPS and the like is to divide and conquer, divide and separate families. Just take a look at our situation; mom and I must live apart, all of you kids are spread out into four different homes (stranger’s homes). This is the only way they can succeed at their profiteering scheme, the only way they can operate for profit whatsoever. Oh yeah, that’s right they get paid thousands (from our very own federal government) for keeping you kids separated from us and they get bonuses for adopting kids out. Did you know that Julie Riggins and CPS asked the judge to approve Stephen, Matthew, Hannah, Sarah, Joseph, and Benjamin for adoption in the last court hearing in January 2012? And those Gift Cards (Wal-Mart and others) they hand out like candy; they are being investigated for using them for their own purposes (stealing them). They (CPS social workers just like Julie Riggins) have spent and unaccounted for over $200,000.00 in Gift Cards purchased with cash they earned from keeping kids and teens like you in custody. Gift Cards they normally use as bribes! Bribes paid to you children and teens in their custody to keep you all on their side and right where they want you. As I type this I find myself thinking how sorry I am that you are smack in the middle of this corruption!

      People like my own sister Kelli-Ann Reale have become champions for the cause of eradicating abuse. The problem with that notion is that it cannot be eradicated (at least not the way they are setting out to do so). You should first know that Kelli-Ann is a fraud! My own mother can tell you more first-hand information about her own daughter in recent years, but she is my sister and I know quite a bit myself. For instance, she was never abused in our home. None of us were. She will tell you all day long and twice on Sunday that she was molested by my father (later recanted – and then later re-instated???), and that she was physically abused in other ways in our home. Not while I was living there, or my brother (ask him yourself). She will also tell you that she was raped in Florida on a business trip and that she was abused by her lesbian girlfriend in Pittsburgh. She will further tell you that she is no longer a lesbian (a lifestyle claim she made for over 15 years), but now she may be back to “Not Sure.” At a minimum she is very confused and even disturbed. She tried to commit suicide in New York during her college days (mostly due to her new-found lifestyle experiment and financial difficulties).

      So it should come as no surprise that Kelli-Ann and MANY, MANY others like her continue to advance this agenda of using “abuse” as an excuse for everything (real or fabricated). You can’t get a job – you must have been abused and you need medication, you can’t get along in a relationship – you must have been abused and need medication, you can’t do well in school – you must have been abused and need medication, you don’t get along with family – you must have been abused and need medication, to name just a few.

      Did you know that … 78% (8 of 10 reports) of Domestic Violence claims are determined to be false? Do you know that the reason for these false claims is due to matters of child custody? That’s because it takes 3-5 months to get in front of a judge to settle the question of custody between two adults with children, but if you make claims of Domestic Violence (even false) you will be heard by a judge within 10 days… Quite the motivation to fabricate and /or make false allegations don’t you think? Just like what happened with your mom and me.

      Something else to consider… You speak of protecting your mom, your brothers and sisters; yet keeping these false allegations and fabrications on life support by lashing out with some sort of misdirected anger only continues to hurt them all. Notice I did not even mention the effect on me. Your mom especially, as she works to get past what she was responsible for at the start. She has long recanted these very same allegations repeatedly and she continues to struggle with guilt! She is especially hurt by the fact that it is her own son (who knows the truth with the best of us). CPS and the courts may lack evidence and any other form of proof to sustain these allegations leaving them with question marks, but YOU were a part of our house for 16 years. You are our son. You were there. That makes these continued attacks most unacceptable and contrary to your statement of having the desire to protect anyone. And by the way, it is the responsibility of your mother and me to protect our children (including you) and my responsibility to protect your mother (as her husband), not yours. I know you already know this too, but it is important to point out that your mom has never even accused me of ever laying a hand on her (not even falsely). Each and every one of you was asked in a CPS mental health evaluation back in June 2010 (when you were all first kidnapped) if you had ever witnessed any type of violence between mom and me. Each of you answered NO. That’s you, Stephen, Matthew, Hannah, Sarah, and even Joseph (only 3-years-old) all denying any violence between your mom and me in over 16 years… And now you make such ridiculous statements like; “and i swear if you lay one hand on my mother i will put your ass in jail.” It leaves me speechless, and of course wondering why you would even think such things, let alone speak them or write them down. What do you get out of these LIES? How do they benefit you?

      I read your comments and reflect back on these past two years and what I have been through with regard to these false claims of abuse and other false allegations. These are allegations that have been presented in such a way and within such a corrupt system that it makes them seem indefensible. It doesn’t matter what I say, it doesn’t matter that there is no evidence, it doesn’t matter that there is no proof whatsoever, or that all of the allegations that were fabricated initially by your mom and CPS have been since recanted by your mom repeatedly. As I reflect, I can’t help but hope and pray that you, your brothers, or your sisters will never face such fabrications that you cannot defend against. That is truly what I am fighting for as we speak. I fight for the future! Your future!

      The fact is, you know the truth, you grew up in our home and there is absolutely no reason for you to be keeping these allegations alive, even if it is to express your loyalty to some new found family members. I am your father, the father who raised you. Period! You cannot undo that no matter how angry this situation has makes you, no matter how much you disagree with your current circumstances. These fabrications are responsible for this entire nightmare – ON ALL FRONTS! You, your brothers, and sisters have been detained and imprisoned because of these allegations. Specifically, your brothers and sisters have been split up into three separate foster care facilities against their will and ours (with strangers). They are suffering tremendously and needlessly. Where is your desire to protect them from that? You know first-hand what that experience is like. Your mother harbors great guilt from the very fabrications she initiated (for all the wrong reasons), and it pains her tremendously to know that you have seemingly picked up where she left off.

      I’m not telling you anything you don’t already know but the readers of this website may not know all the details… In closing, I would only say that I pray and hope the best things for you. I pray that you can see past this evil and stay focused on yourself and what is important to you right now. I regularly ask your mother how you are, what you are up to, and if things are OK. If there is anything I can do. I am here if you need me for anything! Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. I always have been. I fear them NOT! I love you more than you know.

      DAD

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    • My Kids Dad says:
      November 12, 2012 at 5:38 pm

      Hey, where did you go. Now that you UNDERSTAND that I know who you are; you don’t feel like coming around anymore??? This website speaks to people just like you exactly. COWARDS! ANONYMOUS COWARDS! Now that the truth is on the page you can’t seem to face it. Notice the detail? That’s all your LIES hitting you right back in the face!.. Your lies will always come back to you…

      Your title “Looking for the Truth?? You won’t find it here!!” is the JOKE. I don’t need to “look for the truth.” I know the truth and have all along. So have the despicable parasites that stole our kids (and all those who participated in any way)…

      It should not go unsaid that YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN AND YOU ALWAYS WILL BE A LIAR!

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      • Ex- of a nasty man says:
        November 14, 2012 at 10:59 am

        I wonder if you could give us all, the real person behind these posts? I know a few of us on here have a good idea who it is. After reading and seeing the way it was written. Just a thought to expose “HIM” and let this site know that we are not protected. Even thought its our story, with facts that most people refuse to believe!
        I think this “MAN” has been in Worley’s courtroom.

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